Defining Spirit

It's super bowl weekend and the news is filled with team interviews and excitement.  There are week long parties and signs of spirit everywhere.  But what is Spirit?  Some people think of religion when they hear the word.  I work in a school and we celebrate Spirit Week.  I often hear a child described as "spirited" or one who "shows spirit."  I don't think of religion when I hear these descriptions.  So why are some schools afraid to talk about Spirit? I like to embrace another thought.  
A mentor of mine, Dr. Brian Luke Seaward, uses three words to describe Spirit: Relationships, Values and Purpose.  Patriot's quarterback Tom Brady and Coach Belichick both speak of Spirit when going through their grueling interviews.  Both men speak of the importance of relationships when interviewed.  Brady and Belichick describe the significance of family and the values they learned from their parents.
 I have to tell you before I go any further that I am not a huge football fan.  I watch the game and you might call me a "fair weather fan."  What peaked my interest this week was listening to Brady and Belichik during their interviews.  I listened as they answered who their heroes were.  I wasn't surprised by Brady's response but Coach Bill made me listen.  You see, I was shocked to hear him speak about something near and dear to my heart.  He spoke about following your passion and being happy with decisions you make.  It's about doing what makes you happy, not about making someone else happy.
You may not be a Patriot's fan, but check out this very short video.  Coach Belichick is a man of few words, and these are worth listening to.  I often share this sentiment about college and future with the students I see in my office.